If so how did you feel afterwards and how do you feel about it now? Do u feel like you've made the right or wrong decision?
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I'm probably going to get a lot of hate mail by saying this, but I have had one.
I was very young and the guy who did it to me was a jerk and it just wasn't the right time for me to have a baby.
Afterwards I felt pretty crappy for a long time. I still do. But I do understand that I couldn't go through that kind of thing at the time. My life was turned upside down at the time. My dad died that year, my mom kicked me out of the house that year (even before I was preg) Lost all my friends and I had to move. It was a really negative year...getting preg was the icing on the cake. In a bad way. I had way too much going on and having a baby wasn't going to help. Overall I do feel that I made the right decision. I got it done really quickly after I found out that I was...so I wouldn't get attached and what not. I usually don't tell people because people have very different opinions about it..but this is online so..I'll tell you anyway! It's not a form of birthcontrol I wouldn't recremend it to anyone who isn't sure of they want it done. You have to be 100% sure. It's something that you have to hold for the rest of your life. It can either make you a mess or you can walk away knowing that you made the right decision.
No.
I have not had one- nor do I think I could have.
Never will! Your killing the baby!
I haven't, but my best friend at the time had one. She felt, before doing it, that it was the best decision. Afterward, the guilt she felt was awful, now 10 years later, she says it was the best decision. She wasn't ready for a child and she and the father were on the outs. I didn't agree with her then, nor do I know, but people make decisions that will affect them the rest of their lives, whether that be negatively or positively.
i can't imagine having an abortion after 13 days your babys heart starts beating...its kind of like killing the baby... i have an appt tomarrow for a preg test...baby is not planned and im probably not ready for one but im so excited to find out if i am and probably will be disappointed if im not...
no. and pleaseeee dont feel like that is your only choice. you are KILLING an unborn baby. there are millions of people in the world that would do anything to have a baby - and having an abortion is just killing one. Give the baby up for adoption if you decide you cant take care of it. He/she will have a loving family and live a LIFE. You would be giving someone else a miracle. please please please think about it.
Please DON'T murder a baby. Abortion should Not be used as a birthcontrol method.
How can people sleep at night that do that?
The unborn can't speak.............give the baby a chance to live. It can be adopted if you don't want it.
I know of someone that has had one and it's a different situation for each person so it's going to be hard for you to get an answer for that......for some it was the wrong decision and for some the right one. The person I knew made the only decision she could at the time.
MAYBE AS A MALE I CANNOT HAVE A POINT OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, YET BY THE YEARS I'VE LIVED I'VE HEARD THAT SOME WOMEN HAVE SERIOUS REGRETS MANY YEARS AFTERWARD.
ALSO THIS DECISION IS PERMANENT AND IRREVERSIBLE.
Who are all of you judgmental people?! When did ByeDR.com turn in to the "conservative christian you better not have an abortion" network??!!
Do not judge lest ye be judged, losers!
yes, many years ago just after my husband and i separated, pregnant from one night stand, already a single mum of one trying to get my act tohether, have had moments of guilt/regret, but in the long run it was the best decision i could make at the time
I am really going out on a limb here....but I have had two. Before you all FREAK....the first was when I was 19 and suffered a premature rupture of the membrane at 15 weeks gestation ( for those of you who dont know what that is.....its a rupture of the amniotic sac and loss of all amniotic fluid ) I chose to abort rather than wait and see if the baby would survive/ or miscarriage. After that I fell into a deep depression. I suffered for nearly a year with severe depression ( needed medication ....ALOT ) my relationship with the father fell to pieces....I started DEPO because I could not bear the thought of another child....and then found out I was pregnant again ! Now some of you may think I should burn in H.E.L.L. for this......but I COULD NOT DEAL WITH ANYTHING MORE......I had become suicidal by that point.....so I chose termination....I was a total wreck and could not have provided care for a child. The first was a terrible experience that will haunt me forever.....but the second I dont really think about at all.
one of my best friends had one . she said she felt OK afterward but i think she was lying. i figure it was a good decision because shes only 14.
yes I have, and I really dont think that judging someone when they are considering such a drastic decision is smart...I had mine and I believe I made the right one...The childs father left me (accusing me of cheating)..I just lost my job, and to me adoption is not the answer, I would rather have an abortion than let my child go into the horrible adoption system that we have..that kicks children out at 18, I couldnt bear to see a newspaper and see a child neglected...After my abortion I will honestly say the only thing I felt was relief..I was too young, broke and damn near homeless, and to everyone who wanted to judge me, I say **** you, because Im sure you will be the first to complain when I apply for food stamps or housing...like I said...I felt relief after mine, and I know for a fact I made the right decision, I would not be where I am now, if i hadnt....If you are considering it...make sure that YOU will be okay with your decision, its nothing to take lightly
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